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Bondage Positions for Genital Spanking

I believe that there are really only three simple, effective bondage position options for genital spanking. If you decide tonight’s the night to restrain your partner, spread their legs and give them a paddling on their most sensitive areas, here’s a quick look at the three options:

Spreadeagle

  • Partner feels helpless (and frankly, is helpless) to prevent the spanking
  • A relatively severe spreadeagle like the one in the picture even prevents attempts at movement to throw off the spanker’s aim
  • Genital area is nicely exposed, though as always, narrow spanking implements (a riding crop, for instance) will work best
  • Comfortable position for the bound partner (except for the spanking part, of course)
  • Requires connection points for all four limbs
Wrists to Ankles

  • Partner cannot use their arms to prevent the spanking
  • Bound partner has more ability to move and/or close their legs to interfere with the spanking, but this can actually be a positive if the spanker wishes to require active voluntary submission to receive each blow–
    “Joy, open your legs…now ask me to please spank your pussy.”
  • Narrow spanking instruments definitely preferred
  • Comfortable position for the bound partner (again, except for the fact that they are being spanked)
  • No external connection points required
    Ball Tie (aka “diaper position” in the spanking community)

    • In a tight ball tie, the bound partner is far more helpless than you (or they) might expect
    • Legs provide leverage to control and position the bound partner’s body as the spanker desires to receive the spanking
    • Genitals are slightly less exposed than in the first two positions, as the thighs provide some slight coverage
    • No external connection points and only a single pair of cuffs required!
    • Because the genital area tends to protrude somewhat in the ball tie, this position is able to accommodate somewhat wider spanking implements if desired
    • Reasonably comfortable position for bound partner provided that the duration isn’t too long

    Of course, it’s possible to mix and match bits and pieces of other positions to good effect as well (for instance, consider an overarm tie combined with some means of tying the legs apart), and if you decide you need to venture beyond “simple”, I’m quite sure someone, somewhere has figured out a way to suspend their partner upside down with legs spread to offer a tempting target. I like simple, though, and so tend to stick with one of these three options when Joy’s pussy needs a bit of disciplinary action.

    Enjoy yourself!

    Jake

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    Spanking the Tender Parts

    Joy likes a good spanking. Oh, she’s a bit conflicted about it, but she can’t deny how it excites her and how much she looks forward to it. It’s clearly one of her most powerful “guilty pleasures”.

    But that’s a spanking-on-the-bottom that I’m talking about, and the bottom is not the only possible target. Sometimes, when I want to establish a climate of serious submission, I choose to spank another part of Joy’s body, a part even more tender than her perky rear end. Sometimes I instruct Joy to open her legs, and I spank her beautiful pussy.

    Spanking a female between her parted legs definitely grabs her attention. Nature has installed a natural feeling of extreme protectiveness for our genitals into each of us, and allowing someone…even someone you trust…to smack such a sensitive and vulnerable area of one’s body requires a conscious decision to lower one’s defenses. Doing so creates a great feeling of submission in the recipient of the spanking. Having one’s partner submit to a genital spanking creates a reciprocal feeling of power in the spanker. In addition, the vulva is far more delicate and sensitive than the rear end, which after all comes with at least a bit of built-in padding. Therefore, the potential for pain and the fear of hurt rises when the genital area becomes the target.

    Joy likes a good spanking, but she’s not very enthusiastic about having her pussy spanked. From a purely theoretical point of view, she likes the idea of being made to receive a spanking in this way–it triggers her submissive desire at a very deep level. However, when it comes to practice rather than theory…well, like I said, Joy’s not very enthusiastic. It’s not the pain of the experience–I’m well aware she’s afraid of being spanked between her legs, and therefore I do so delicately, taking care not to cause her any serious discomfort. Instead, I think she’s simply afraid.

    My experience has been that, due to the body’s natural shape and the location of the target between the legs, a narrow spanking implement is best. A hand can certainly work, but as a rule, I prefer to use our riding crop. It’s possible to perform the spanking from behind, perhaps leveraging some variation of the leapfrog position, but I usually choose to place Joy on her back with her legs apart. My feeling is that letting her see what is happening helps her to overcome her fear.

    Sometimes I bind Joy’s legs apart so that she can’t close them–there’s a delicious feeling of helplessness that arises from being physically unable to prevent the crop from coming down where it’s directed. Mostly, however, I choose to leave Joy’s legs unbound, and simply instruct her firmly to open them and keep them apart. Her struggle to prevent herself from closing her thighs after the smack of the crop on her vulva…her will to submit triumphing over her fear… These make a lovely sight to behold. I think for this particular exercise that Joy prefers to be unbound as well, as her internal battle intensifies the sense of her submission.

    And if I want to go even a step further, I require her to admit her submission to me:

    Jake: “Joy, what can I spank?”
    Joy (lying face up on the bed with her legs apart): “My bottom.”
    Jake: “I know I can spank your bottom. But what else can I spank?”
    Joy (whispers): “My pussy.”
    *smack*
    Jake: “Keep your legs open. I didn’t hear you. What can I spank?”
    Joy: “…my pussy.”
    *smack*
    Jake: “How many times can I spank it?”
    Joy: “Ummm…Five?”
    Jake: “How many?”
    Joy: “Ten???”
    Jake: “Hmmm…let’s count and see how many times.”

    Because it’s not Joy’s favorite, this act is not something we do often, but it’s a good tool to keep in our toolbox for those nights when Joy needs to feel an extra, excruciating dose of submission. It satisfies her in a way that a regular spanking on the bum cannot achieve.

    Enjoy yourself,

    Jake

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