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Friday Adventure Recipe: Hogtied and Helpless

Recipe for Hogtied and Helpless:

The hogtie is a bondage position that emphasizes helplessness. With her hands and feet gathered together and bound behind her back, this position ensures that your submissive partner can do little more than wiggle under your touch. In today’s adventure, we will further emphasize her state of helplessness with a blindfold (and optionally a gag as well) and then capitalize on it by seriously overloading her sexual circuitry.

One of the drawbacks of the hogtie position is that it makes any form of intercourse difficult. Never fear, however, as we will work around that problem by finishing up in your partner’s mouth. As usual, please note that though I’m writing from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner, genders and roles could be changed without too much difficulty to fit your situation.

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Instructions:

For this adventure, you’ll need your partner’s nipples and genitals exposed, so she should be dressed in clothing/lingerie that facilitates this. This could be anything from an open cup bra and crotch-less panties to nothing at all—the choice is yours. You may dress yourself however you see fit—since your partner will be blindfolded, your attire is not much of a factor.

Lay out your equipment so that it is ready for use. No need to worry about keeping it out of sight—it won’t impact anything if your partner guesses what you plan for them. The only possible exception to this might be the gag if you plan to use it, and that’s only because it’s always so much fun to make your partner open her lips and take the gag when she’s not expecting it.

If you do choose to use the gag, remember to be careful of your partner’s breathing, and arrange for some sort of “safe signal” to replace your normal safe word, as she won’t necessarily be able to speak intelligibly.

  1. Begin by bringing your partner to a nice, steamy simmer with kisses and caresses. Keep raising her temperature as you attach the cuffs to her wrists and ankles.
  2. Continue to kiss her and caress her as you place the blindfold over her eyes. And then give her one final kiss before you insert the gag between her pretty lips and fasten its straps in place behind her head.
  3. Gently, but firmly, place her face down on the bed (or the couch, or the floor, or wherever you want her to lie). Bring her wrists together at the small of her back and fasten them with the hogtie (or alternatively with a rope or a snap hook, depending on which you choose to use). Then grasp her feet and pull them up and back until you can connect her ankles to her wrists using the hog tie (or the rope or a snap hook) as well. At this point she should be helpless–blindfolded, gagged and bound in the hogtie position.
  4. Now, roll your partner over until she is lying about three-quarters on her back. (Avoid making her roll over too far or she will have her weight on top of her hands and ankles, which will quickly become intolerably uncomfortable for her.) This will nicely expose her breasts and vagina, and note that because her hands and feet are bound behind her, there is very little she can do to prevent you from doing whatever you’d like to these delicious parts of her body.
  5. Use your hands and mouth to raise your partner’s temperature to a full boil. When she is gasping and squirming and fully lubricated, pick up the vibrator. This is no time for subtlety and gradual build up—turn the setting to high and apply it directly where she likes it the most.
  6. Remember I mentioned we would overload your partner’s sexual circuitry? While the vibrator is working its magic on her genitals, use your mouth and free hand to play with her nipples. Kiss them, lick them, suck them and nip them. Pinch them between your fingers and roll them back and forth. In the presence of great arousal, nipples often seem to convert pain to pleasure, and this is the effect we are going for here. Watch your partner and read her reactions to make sure you don’t go too far in this direction—you want to be sure you are giving her the “good” kind of pain. If you exceed her tolerance for this, however, you’ll cross over to the “bad” kind of pain, and that will detract from the experience rather than adding to it.
  7. If all continues to go well with the nipple play and you want to go a step further, try this. Use your finger to “flick” her erect nipple. Start out gently, and watch how she responds. If her reaction seems to be more positive (as in, “Ow, that turns me on!” rather than “Ow, that hurts!”), you can increase how hard you flick it. Joy only likes this when she’s truly excited–if she’s not extremely aroused, it hurts. But when she is in the proper state of arousal, it drives her crazy.
  8. Your goal is to give your partner multiple orgasms. In fact, ideally you’ll keep her squirming and bubbling for orgasm after orgasm after orgasm. Go until you think she can’t possibly take anymore. Since she is so helpless, she won’t be able to stop you, and so will have no choice but to keep on coming. The only exception is, of course, if she uses her safe word (or safe action if you are using a gag).
  9. When you decide to stop, don’t give her time to compose herself. Instead, remove the gag (if you’re using it), then grasp her hair and position her head so that you can enter her mouth. Thrust in and out between her lips until you reach your own climax. The choice is yours whether you come in her mouth or across her face–either will work just fine.

Commentary:

If you’d like to emphasize the feeling of Dominance (and conversely, your partner’s feeling of submission) in this adventure, consider choosing to give your partner a facial rather than coming in her mouth. Once you’ve done so, leave her bound for a few minutes so that she’s unable to clean herself up and must lie there with your sperm on her face (but stay close by–it’s not safe for your partner to be alone when she is gagged and bound). When you decide it’s been long enough, take a cloth and gently wipe her face for her before you free her.

Other bondage positions besides the hogtie will work for this adventure as well, of course, and if you decide that intercourse is a must, you could certainly unbind your partner’s legs to make it more easily possible. Another gag alternative might be a ring gag, which would enable you to penetrate your partner’s mouth without having to stop to remove it.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Bondage Position: Hog Tie

A few months ago, I wrote a series of posts that described the various bondage positions that Joy and I employ during our nocturnal adventures together. Shockingly, I appear to have entirely skipped over the hog tie! Obviously I must remedy this defect immediately…

The hog tie gets its name from the way that swine were historically secured to prevent them from moving. The animal’s four trotters were gathered and bound together in a bundle. A similar approach is used in rodeos for the calf-roping event, when the rider ropes the calf, dismounts, flips the calf over and binds its hooves together (in this case it’s only three hooves, but the principle is the same). When applied to a human this same general approach applies, except that the four limbs are bound together behind the back.

To place your partner in a hog tie, simply bind their wrists together behind their back and then bend their legs back and secure each ankle to their wrists. You can use as little as a single strand of cord or a silk necktie if that’s all you’ve got, or you can be more elaborate if you like rope and knots. I, of course, am not a rope guy, so my preferred method usually involves a cuff on each wrist and ankle, and either some snap hooks or our leather hog tie, which is a purpose-built restraint created specifically to enable the hog tie position.

The severity of the hog tie depends on how much slack you give your partner’s limbs. Little slack implies more severity and less comfort, and more slack implies less severity, greater comfort, and less control. Generally I’ve found that it’s best to leave enough slack to enable your partner to lie flat on their back without being forced to lay on top of their hands. However, there may be special occasions in which you desire more or less slack.

The great advantage of the hog tie is the degree of control it provides you. If your partner is confined in this manner, they truly can do little to free themselves, as they can’t see behind them to work on loosing the cuffs or knots. They can’t really go anywhere either, as they have little use of either their legs or hands. About the only thing they can do is wiggle, and it can be great fun to give them something to wiggle about!

Opportunities to provide stimulation to induce wiggling abound, as this position leaves your partner’s breasts, nipples and genitals exposed and (mostly) defenseless. The breasts, in particular, are extremely available, and therefore anything from breast-spanking to nipple clamps to kisses and caresses are very much in play. Manual, oral and mechanical stimulation of the genitals are also extremely convenient, and because the bound party’s mouth is completely unobstructed, it’s perfectly possible to avail yourself of its pleasures while your partner is bound in this way.

A severe hog tie can become fairly uncomfortable quickly, especially if the bound party is positioned on their back, lying on top of their own arms. Less severe hog ties, however, can be reasonably comfortable for longer periods of time, and therefore are preferred in most cases. As with any bondage position that induces helplessness, one should never leave one’s partner alone when they are bound in this position.

Naturally, the hog tie has drawbacks as well, and unfortunately I find them serious. The primary issue has to do with access. With the limbs bound back together, the legs and arms get in the way of any activity involving the bound party’s behind, including spanking as well as anal and rear-entry vaginal intercourse. Severe hogties get in the way of front-entry vaginal intercourse as well, but moderate ties with sufficient slack can make it more possible. In addition, it’s only really comfortable for the bound party if they lay on their side or belly. Any positions that require them to remain face up are problematic.

Because of the access issue, I usually employ moderate severity and limit our use of the hog tie to “all about Joy” nights, where I do my very best to give a bound and helpless Joy orgasm after orgasm, even after she thinks she can’t possibly stand anymore. The hog tie position works very well for this because she truly can’t prevent me from touching her when and how I desire. Sometimes we stop after the last ounce of excitement has been wrung from her and just go to sleep, but often I’ll call a halt a little sooner and leave her bound as I take my pleasure in her mouth or vagina.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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