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Soliciting Suggestions

I’m looking for fun ideas for Christmas presents for Joy. Well, let me clarify: I’m looking for a few, fun ideas for naughty Christmas presents for Joy and I to share this holiday season. While it’s certainly possible for me to browse the various different BDSM equipment, lingerie and sex toy sites, I thought there might be a better way to hone in on “interesting” products we might like. I thought I’d ask you for help!

Is there a vibrator that absolutely drives you crazy? Or a set of nipple clamps that sends you right over the edge? Do you have a particular paddle that you swear by, or a set of comfortable-but-inescapable cuffs that you use to make your partner helpless? If you do, or if you have some other fun toy or tool or piece of lingerie you think is great and that we might like, would you please suggest it in the comments to this post?

I’ll take a look at all suggestions–links would be appreciated if they are available. Hopefully I’ll get some good ideas to surprise Joy with! And feel free to browse other comments when you leave your own–there might be ideas for you to consider as well.

Thank you in advance to all who make suggestions! Joy and I will be very appreciative!

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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BDSM Product Review: 11 Inch Leather Mini-Slapper

A month or so ago I bought a leather mini-slapper with an eye to giving Joy a satisfying spanking while at the same time leaving her lovely bottom free of bruises or other marks. The 11 Inch Leather Mini-Slapper has managed to fill this bill. If you’re interested in sting rather than thud, and pristine flesh the day after the spanking, this item may be of interest. For more information, take a look at the full review.

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Feeling Deliciously Full

Don’t you love finding a new use for something? A year or so ago I bought Joy a strap on dildo made for her to wear. I bought it with the idea that she’d use it on our friend Beth when she came over to visit, but that didn’t work out. Instead, Beth used it on Joy, and that worked out much better indeed! However, we haven’t seen Beth now for quite awhile, and so the “Vac-u-loc 2000 Female Strap On with Plugs” has been gathering dust in a drawer. You can see a picture of it to the right (image courtesy of Extreme Restraints)

That’s too bad–it’s really a quality item (see our review for more info). So I was happy when I realized that it could fulfill another purpose last night.

Last night when we went to bed I truly intended to simply go to sleep. We’d both been up late the night before, and so the idea of drifting off into blissful dreams sounded highly attractive. But, of course, before we go to bed I need to administer Joy’s nightly maintenance spanking. I know what you’re thinking–couldn’t I just skip it for once so we could go to sleep? And the answer is no, that wasn’t an option. See my previous post about sweating the small stuff for reasons why.

Can you believe it? Once that spanking got going, with Joy’s bottom wiggling and squirming in my lap, all of a sudden sleep didn’t sound quite so attractive. Still, though, I didn’t want to give up on the idea of going to bed early. Joy, however, was in sore need of something to keep her occupied.

“You want to feel full, don’t you?” I asked her. “Nice and full.”

“Yes,” she whimpered as I gave her behind a few more strokes.

“Hmmmm…it’s too bad I want to go to sleep…but I have an idea. I think I know just the thing to fill you up!”

The Vac-u-loc 2000 harness comes with two internal plugs meant to fit into the front and rear entrances of the wearer. Of course, it also comes with the strap on dildo itself, but that’s removable, so I simply took it off and buckled the harness on Joy, taking care to slowly and thoroughly insert the two plugs before fastening the buckle. Joy gasped as they slid in, and the harness ensured that they stayed firmly in place.

“There, my dear,” I told her. “I think we’ll keep you just like this all night. Do you think you can go to sleep this way? All nice and full?”

By this point Joy was well and truly worked up. “I don’t know,” she whispered. “I don’t know if I can.”

“Well let’s find out, shall we? Let’s see if you can sleep all night with a cock filling your pussy and another cock filling your ass.” Her breath caught and she bit her lip. I could see her thinking, imagining her situation…

“Oh, but we need one more thing,” I told her. I got out her cuffs and fastened them on her wrists, and then her matching collar and placed it around her neck, positioning the D-ring at the front of her throat. “I think you might be tempted once it gets late to take the harness off…especially if you find it hard to sleep.” I grasped her wrists and pulled them up to her neck, using snap hooks to attach them to the collar, “Story of O” style. I could hear Joy literally begin to pant as she tested the cuffs and realized that she could no longer use her hands to free herself.

“That should do it,” I said. I reached up and turned out the light. “Sleep tight, Joy.”

I have a feeling that Vac-u-loc 2000 is going to see a bit more use, Beth or no Beth. I wonder if they have a locking model?

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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BDSM Product Review: Rocket Balm

It’s been quite awhile since I posted a product review, and I thought it was about time to rectify that! Therefore, I just added an evaluation of Rocket Balm, the male-oriented counterpart to Joy’s favorite Flower Balm sensitizing lotion. Unlike many other products in this space, this one actually works. For a more complete explanation of my thoughts, please see the review.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Holiday Shopping Guide

It’s the time of year for holiday gift-giving! And doesn’t everybody need a couple of “special” gifts…the kind you don’t put under the tree, but give to your significant other privately, away from spying eyes? I’ve just posted the Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds 2011 Holiday Shopping Guide (just in time for “black Friday”!). It’s a directory that lists the “best” BDSM products and merchants that Joy and I have uncovered during our many adventures over the years. Let’s face it–much of the merchandise available for BDSM play doesn’t live up to it’s marketing hype. The products we include, however, have been thoroughly tested in Jake’s combination playroom/evil laboratory, and have received both Joy’s “Multiple Orgasm Award” and the Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds stamp of approval.

The guide is broken out into categories. Each listing points to a review of a product and a link to a location where you can purchase it. I’ve also tried to indicate which items are most suitable for beginners just starting out on their BDSM journey. If you are new to this “hobby” and still assembling your selection of tools and accoutrements, the guide provides an easy way to select items that work well, are built to last, and will help you and your partner successfully explore the many paths of BDSM.

I’ve only listed the “best” products we’ve found. If you don’t see a listing for a particular category of toy or tool, it’s because we haven’t yet found one that lives up to our standards (Joy is pretty exacting, let me tell you!). To check out our thoughts on options that didn’t make the cut for “best” products, you can see the complete list of BDSM Product Reviews. Full disclosure–Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds has an affiliate relationship with some (not all) of the merchants we list on this site. We try, however, not to let that influence our reviews.

One of the best things about shopping for “special” gifts is that it’s so much fun to browse. Hope this guide proves both useful and entertaining!

Enjoy yourself, and happy holidays!

Jake

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