Want to add a little naughty to your holidays? Need a gift for that special someone that brings a whole new meaning to the words, “Be mine…”?
Listed below are the best of the best per Jake and Joy.
Each link takes you to a BDSM product or vendor that we have identified as the best we’ve tried in a specific category. Click on it and you’ll be able to read our thoughts and impressions based on our personal experience, and the reasons why we consider it the “best”.
While there are plenty of sex toys and pieces of BDSM equipment that do not measure up, you won’t find any of those listed here. If we don’t list a “best” in a category you’re looking for, it’s because we haven’t found one yet that measures up to our standards.
The list is broken out into categories. If you’re new to BDSM, we’ve also tried to highlight items that are good for beginners. Once you’ve read our thoughts on the listing you’ve chosen, you’ll also find a direct link to the product so that you can make a purchase. Or, if you prefer to look around a bit at other options, you can also see a listing of our recommended merchants at the bottom of the list.
Want to know one of the best things about shopping for BDSM equipment? It’s so much fun to browse! As always, enjoy yourself!
- Best Basic Butt Plug
- Best Vibrating Butt Plug — Good for beginners!
- Best Extended-Wear Butt Plug — Good for beginners!
- Best Simple Blindfold — Good for beginners!
- Best Open Cup Bra — Good for beginners!
- Best Basic Collar — Good for beginners!
Dildos and Strap Ons:
- Best Strap On Harness Set — Good for beginners!
- Best Female Strap On Harness Set
- Best Double-Penetration Harness and Dildo
Lubricants and Lotions:
Miscellaneous BDSM Products:
- Best Bondage Belt — Good for beginners!
- Best Breast Binder
- Best Hog Tie
- Best Spreader Bar — Good for beginners!
- Best Anal Hook Restraint
- Best Sensation Play Device
- Best Nipple Clamps — Good for beginners!
- Best Vibrator for Solo Play — Good for beginners!
- Best Vibrator for Couples Play — Good for beginners!
Whips and Paddles:
- Best Leather Slapper — Good for beginners!
- Best Leather Paddle — Good for beginners!
- Best Wooden Paddle
- Best Riding Crop
Wrist and Ankle Cuffs:
- Best Leather Wrist Cuffs — Good for beginners!
- Best Leather Ankle Cuffs — Good for beginners!
- Best Locking Cuffs
Best Online Equipment Merchants:
- Eden Fantasys (Sex Toys) — Good for beginners!
- Extreme Restraints (BDSM Equipment)
- Leather Obsession (Leather Apparel and Lingerie)
- Love Fifi (Lingerie) — Good for beginners!
- Sexy Bondage Restraints (BDSM Equipment) — Good for beginners!
- The Stockroom (BDSM Equipment)
- Interested in looking at other options we have tried? View the complete listing of Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds BDSM Product Reviews!