Want to add a little naughty to your holidays? Need a gift for that special someone that brings a whole new meaning to the words, “Be mine…”?

Listed below are the best of the best per Jake and Joy.

Each link takes you to a BDSM product or vendor that we have identified as the best we’ve tried in a specific category. Click on it and you’ll be able to read our thoughts and impressions based on our personal experience, and the reasons why we consider it the “best”.

While there are plenty of sex toys and pieces of BDSM equipment that do not measure up, you won’t find any of those listed here. If we don’t list a “best” in a category you’re looking for, it’s because we haven’t found one yet that measures up to our standards.

The list is broken out into categories. If you’re new to BDSM, we’ve also tried to highlight items that are good for beginners. Once you’ve read our thoughts on the listing you’ve chosen, you’ll also find a direct link to the product so that you can make a purchase. Or, if you prefer to look around a bit at other options, you can also see a listing of our recommended merchants at the bottom of the list.

Want to know one of the best things about shopping for BDSM equipment? It’s so much fun to browse! As always, enjoy yourself!


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Dildos and Strap Ons:
Lubricants and Lotions:
Miscellaneous BDSM Products:

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Whips and Paddles:
Wrist and Ankle Cuffs:
Best Online Equipment Merchants:

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