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Friday Adventure Idea: Busy at Both Ends

Recipe for Busy at Both Ends

As you might guess from the title, the point to this adventure is to simulate a situation in which your submissive partner must simultaneously satisfy two different penises, one with their mouth and the other with the opposite end of their body. Because it is a simulation, it’s best if your partner is free to use their imagination to enhance the experience—hence the requirement for a blindfold.

If you wish to stress the idea that your partner must submit to you and you expect them to obey regardless of what you require of them, slant your dialogue during the adventure in this direction. Use phrasing such as, “Do as you are told”. If you’d rather focus on the simple fun of pretending to have a threesome, that’s okay, too—just lighten the dialogue up and have fun. Joy and I, of course, took the former direction, but either way is fine—it depends entirely on what you prefer.

Like usual, I’m writing this from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. It’s certainly possible to reverse the roles and genders, but if the Dominant partner is female, a strap on dildo should be added to the list of required equipment.

You Will Need:

  • 1 blindfold
  • 1 suction-cup dildo
  • a hard, smooth surface on which to affix the dildo (note that the surface must be positioned so that the dildo can stick to it at about head-height for your partner when she is on all fours—we have a full-length mirror on the wall that works well)

Instructions:

This is one scene in which stimulating your partner’s breasts does not necessarily play a large role, so it is an excellent opportunity to break out a pretty bra, an over-bust corset or other lingerie that covers your partner’s nipples. This sort of lingerie always seems to come off very quickly in our house, but this adventure provides a chance to leave it on and enjoy how lovely your partner looks wearing it. You may dress yourself however you see fit to start, but you’ll likely end up naked before the scene is through.

It’s probably best to keep the suction-cup dildo close by, but out of sight so that your partner doesn’t see it in advance. Note that some suction-cup dildos (like ours) are made of rubber, which may leave a bad taste in your partner’s mouth. Use of a condom over the dildo will prevent this, as well as add a fun touch of realism to the proceedings.

  1. Thoroughly and completely preheat your partner. Employ whatever methods you choose to accomplish this (ours included a good spanking, but your mileage may vary), but be sure she is at a full-on broil by the time you move on to the next step.
  2. Tell your partner that you want her to be a good girl, and then slide the blindfold over her head. Adjust it to be sure her vision is fully blocked.
  3. Fix the suction-cup dildo to the smooth surface at the appropriate height. Tell your partner that you owe a friend a favor, and she will need to take care of it for you. Lead her to the correct spot and guide her down onto her hands and knees. Direct her head to the dildo and tell her you expect her to suck your friend off.
  4. While she begins sucking, take the opportunity to admire her rear end, using your hands and tongue to perform the admiration. Feel free to deliver a bit of spanking if you like (I know I did!), especially if she shows hesitation to begin her task.
  5. When your partner has settled into her job, enter her from behind. You may use either of her two orifices, though the angle will likely be better for her vagina (and if you go with her ass, be sure to apply lube first).
  6. Thrust in and out of your partner for as long as you can last, allowing her to savor the push-me-pull-you effect of having a cock in both ends. When you can’t hold off anymore, go ahead and take your own pleasure.
  7. Afterwards, hold her close and talk about the experience and how she felt having to satisfy two penises at once. If she did not reach her own orgasm, now might be a good time to see if you can rectify that situation—she’s already well warmed-up, and the conversation will likely only serve to make her hotter.

Commentary:

If you choose to keep the dialogue during the adventure light in tone, this scene can actually be good for a beginner couple. While the idea of being “made” to give oral sex to a friend can seem extreme, the fact that it’s simulation may serve to trigger the hot fantasy part of the scenario while leaving the fear part behind. In fact, this could be a good baby step to use in working towards a real threesome experience, if that is your desire.

Incorporating a more Dominant tone, especially when coupled with corporal punishment, can make the scenario appropriate for more experienced players. Those desiring to go this direction could consider adding a leash and using it to lead the submissive partner on all fours over to the dildo before the sucking commences.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Idea: Make Her Laugh

Recipe for Make Her Laugh

I thought today we’d go in a different direction for a change. Did you know that throughout history, tickling has been used as a form of torture? When applied with determination, it can be a powerful lever to convince the subject to provide information, obey instruction, and generally reach a state of acquiescence. In other words, it can compel submission.

In this adventure, we are going to use tickling, rather than spanking or some other means of causing pain, to ensure your partner submits to you. Because this is a light-hearted adventure, it’s a good one for relative beginners. But be warned! Tickling is far more likely to trigger the use of a safe word than a spanking! In fact, when I enacted this scenario with Joy, we did it under modified safe word guidelines, in which use of her safe word would require me to pause and make certain she was physically safe, but then allow me to continue with the exercise.

Obviously, your partner must be ticklish for this to work. For my instructions below, I’m assuming that their underarms are a location on their body sensitive to tickling. If this is not true for your partner, you’ll need to adjust to focus on a more fruitful area! As always, this is written from my perspective—that of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. However, roles and genders may be switched with no impact on the adventure.

You Will Need:

  • 1 pair wrist cuffs (and they need to be good, strong, non-abrasive ones, because your partner will likely be tugging at them with her full strength)
  • 1 collar with o-ring
  • 1 snap hook
  • Other bondage equipment may optionally be used to secure your partner’s legs or ensure that they are more fully immobilized if desired

Instructions:

Tickling will prove a powerful source of motivation to make your partner submit, but before you begin, you need to figure out something that you want them to submit to! I can’t guess what this should be—you’ll need to decide that for yourself. When I conducted this adventure years ago with Joy, my choice was to require her to swallow after a blow job. At that point, swallowing was not something she enjoyed, though she had a deep-down desire to be made to do it. This exercise worked nicely to help her take a step towards overcoming her difficulty with the act. Options for your own partner are wide, and could include anything from anal sex to allowing you to shave her pubic hair to…well, as I said, you’ll know better than I. Do not, however, pick something that you believe is out of reach for her or that she truly does not want to do! That might lead you to cross the line of consensuality.

The best clothing option for your partner to wear for this adventure is probably a nice bra and panty set. That way all the ticklish bits are nicely exposed! There are no particular dress requirements for you—dress however you are comfortable.

  1. It’s almost always nice to start with a warm oven! Pre-heat your partner to raise her temperature level. Put the cuffs on her wrists and the collar around her neck as you do so. Be sure the O-ring of the collar is positioned at the back of her neck.
  2. When the cuffs are on, use the snap hook to connect your partner’s wrists together in front of her. Continue pre-heating as you lift her joined wrists up and over the top of her head and attach them to the O-ring of the collar, forming an over arm tie position. This make your partner’s breasts highly available (always a good thing), but more importantly, it will also expose her highly ticklish underarms nicely.
  3. If you’re going to use other bondage equipment to secure your partner’s legs or body, now’s the time to do so. Just be sure she remains face up on the bed when she is fully bound.
  4. Kiss your partner’s lips and neck and move down over her chest. However, rather than progressing to her breasts, this time kiss your way up and into her armpits. Kiss, nuzzle and nibble them and see what reaction you get. If your partner is ticklish like Joy, you’ll trigger a few gasps of laughter and a lot of wiggling.
  5. Stop and tell you partner that you expect her to be a very good girl and to give you everything you want tonight. Move up to straddle her belly and look her in the eye. Tell her, “If you don’t obey me, I will have to discipline you.”
  6. As you say the words above, begin to tickle your partner under the arms. She will laugh, thrash and wiggle, which is why you are straddling her. Your weight will help to keep her helpless and in your control. Because of the cuffs, she will be unable to bring her arms down to stop your tickling. After a moment, stop and ask her, “Are you going to give me everything I want tonight?”
  7. Chances are excellent that you’ll receive a positive answer. If not, tickle her mercilessly until you do. Once she agrees to your general requirement to do whatever you ask, move onto specifics. Request that she do individual actions or grant you access to individual areas of her body. Examples might include “Will you show me your breasts?” or “Will you spread your legs so that I can see how wet you are?” Tickle her after each request until she is gasping out the word “yes” over and over. Once she agrees to a request, make her fulfill her promise. If she agrees that you can see her breasts, for instance, then remove her bra to expose them.
  8. After you’ve gone through several requests as described above, move to your true objective. Ask your partner to perform the act you selected before the adventure began. Because this action will be harder for her to agree to, be firm, and use tickling to enforce compliance. (However, remember that this is consensual BDSM and she has the option to say “no” and mean it!) When Joy and I acted this out, our conversation sounded something like this:
    “Will you make me come in your mouth? Will you swallow every drop–not let a single drop spill?”

    {tickling}

    “I’ll try….I’ll try!…I’ll try my best.”

    “That’s not good enough, Joy.”

    {tickling}

    “Yes!..Oh, God…Jake! Yes!…I will!”

    “Will you? How do I know for sure?”

    {tickling}

    “I promise! I promise that I will! I promise!”

  9. Do not free your partner. Inform her that you expect her to do as she said she would, and that you will continue tickling her unless she does so. Then, make her fulfill her commitment. If she does not comply, resume tickling until she does.
  10. Afterwards, free your partner and hold her close. Kiss her and caress her. Praise her for doing well and remind her that she belongs to you.

Commentary:

I have spanked Joy literally hundreds of times, a couple times to the point of tears. I have clamped her nipples and smacked her vulva with a riding crop. And yet she dreads the idea of being tickled again more than any of these. Tickling is a powerful motivator—use it with care.

There are many ways to vary the bondage position used for this exercise, and another position may be required if you wish to focus on another part of her body. The bottoms of her feet are a notably fruitful area to consider. If you want some ideas of other ways to use tickling during an adventure, look on the internet—there are many erotic tickling movies you can view for inspiration.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Idea: Just Say “Yes”

Recipe for Just Say “Yes”:

This is a recipe where improvisation is definitely in order! I lay out a set of suggested steps and wording in the instructions below, but feel free to make changes and play different riffs on the overall theme when you enact it. As long as the basic premise remains the same, the result should turn out just fine.

I highly recommend having a safe word in place for this adventure—please establish one before you begin. Though I’ve written as a male Dominant with a female submissive partner, all activities here are non-gender-specific, and this will work just as well even if roles and genders are mixed and matched.

You Will Need:

  • 1 pair wrist cuffs
  • 1 or more snap hooks
  • 1 overhead connection point (or if you don’t have one, a connection point mounted at head-height or higher would be slightly awkward, but workable)
  • 1 set variable tension nipple clamps (i.e. the kind that you can tighten to increase the amount of “pinch”)
  • 1 implement for spanking (any type will work, including bare hands, but more severe is better—I used our switch when Joy and I did this)
  • a vibrator

Instructions:

You will need full access to your partner’s nipples, bottom and genitals for this adventure. Practically speaking, any lingerie options that provide this access will work. However, to go along with the theme of the adventure, I suggest that you might want to try to invoke a feeling of innocence with your partner’s dress. Joy wore her white, lacey, cupless bra and a very short, white crinoline skirt with nothing underneath. She looked almost angelic when we began.

You may dress however you like—I believe I started out wearing a pair of jeans and no shirt. However, this would be a good opportunity for you to break out your dungeon garb if you own any. A chain-and-leather harness would contrast nicely with your partner’s soft, innocent look.

Go ahead and lay out your equipment in full view before your partner joins you. In this case, anticipation is your friend–you’d like her to see what you have waiting for her. As a precaution, note that it is not good to leave nipple clamps on for too extended a duration, so bear that in mind and time the scenario accordingly.

  1. Your partner will need to be nicely pre-heated for this adventure. Don’t skimp on this! Use whatever tricks work best to raise her temperature setting to a toasty “bake”, and keep her there as you have the following conversation with her.
  2. Explain that you want your partner to be a very good girl tonight, and to be a good girl she must obey your instructions. Tell her that, in fact, you expect her to be strictly obedient, so much so that she has lost the ability to use the word “no” during this adventure. No matter what you ask of her, her only answer can be “yes”. Saying “no” is not allowed. When you’ve explained this, confirm that she understands.
  3. When your partner has assented, ask her politely if you may cuff her. Having just had the previous conversation, hopefully she will say “yes”! Place the cuffs around her wrists and then use the snap hook to attach them to the connection point overhead.
  4. In this position, your partner’s breasts are yours to play with. Caress them, tease her nipples up and kiss them. As you do so, ask your partner a series of questions that establish your ownership of her, questions that she can easily answer “yes” to. Examples might include such things as, “Does your body belong to me?” or “May I have this sweet ass whenever I want it?”
  5. After you’ve gotten her to answer “yes” several times, and after her nipples are fully erect from your ministrations, tell her that her nipples look like they badly want to be clamped. Ask her, “Do your nipples want to be clamped, my dear?” Guess what her answer will be!
  6. Attach the clamps to her nipples so that they are tight enough to stay on, but not overly tight. Then move on to play with another portion of your partner’s body, perhaps her bottom, for instance. As you caress her, continue to ask questions she can answer “yes” to. “Do you like it when I touch you here?” Will you do as you are told?”
  7. After several more yesses, remark that the clamps on your partner’s nipples don’t seem tight enough. “Don’t you think they need to be a little tighter, honey?” you should ask.
  8. Probably you will get a reluctant “yes” here. If you get a “no” instead, you’ll need to skip ahead to step 9 to see what to do. For the moment, let’s assume she answered with a positive. Tighten the clamp on her left nipple. Make it good and tight, enough so that she can clearly feel it. Kiss her and hold her. Caress her body. Let her nipple begin to get used to the pain of the clamp. Say, “There, now your nipple has what it wanted. Isn’t that better?” She will likely respond with a weak affirmative. Then whisper, “Oh, but your poor right nipple! It didn’t get what it wants! We should give your right nipple the same treatment we gave your left one, shouldn’t we? Isn’t that the fair thing to do?”
  9. Depending on your partner, you may continue to get yesses for awhile longer, but somewhere in here you’re going to hit a “no”. When you do, you should:
    • Immediately remind your partner that “no” is forbidden to her for this adventure, and that she promised to be a good girl and obey.
    • Take the spanking implement you have selected and deliver four or five firm strokes across her bare bottom. She needs to feel them.
    • Re-confirm with your partner that “yes” is the only answer she has available to her during this adventure.
    • Return to what you were doing before you received the “no” response and repeat the exact question she said “no” to. This time you should get a positive answer.
  10. Tighten the right nipple clamp to match the left one. Then ask, “Shall I get the vibrator, darling?” Use the vibrator to keep your partner simmering on the edge of orgasm as you continue.
  11. By now you should see the pattern here. Continue to ask your partner questions that she can answer “yes” to. “Do you like this?” “Do you want to come?” But every once in awhile ask one that she’d clearly prefer to answer with a “no” instead. Good options include:
    • ”Those clamps still look a little loose. Shall I tighten them just a bit more?”
    • ”You have such a greedy pussy”. Greedy pussies need a little spanking to teach them a lesson. Don’t you think your pussy needs to be taught a lesson, darling?”
    • ”You know, a little weight always helps a nipple clamp to do its job. Shall I hang one of these snap hooks on the chain between your nipple clamps, honey?”
    • ”And now I think a spanking is in order. I was going to give you twenty-five strokes, but now I wonder if fifty would be better. Would you prefer fifty, my dear?”

    You can probably come up with other options if you try. Any “no” response should immediately be punished as described above, and then the question should be re-asked so that your partner can answer “yes”. Continue to use the vibrator, your hands and your mouth to keep your partner’s temperature hot and her excitement level high.

  12. At some point, you (and your partner!) will have had enough. Your last question to her should be something like, “Do you want me to fuck you now, my dear?” When she responds “yes”, detach her cuffs from the overhead connection point and connect them together behind her back instead. Immediately position her however you would like for entry, mount her and ride her until you reach orgasm.
  13. Afterwards, remove the nipple clamps slowly and gently. They will hurt coming off! Hold your partner in your arms and tell her that you are proud of her for being a good girl and obeying you.

Commentary:

To reiterate, you don’t need to stick to the script I’ve laid out above. Feel free to improvise other questions and activities. As long as you are making your partner say “yes” to things they’d rather say “no” to, you’re keeping with the spirit of the adventure.

Note that it’s possible you’ll never get a “no” response at all. If your partner has the willpower to continue to submit for the duration, that’s a good thing. Be proud of her! The adventure will still reinforce her submission even if you never have to punish her.

Other bondage positions could certainly be used for this activity, though access to parts of your partner’s body may be obstructed. It would also be possible to spank other portions of your partner’s body—thighs or breasts, for instance. Regardless of the specific activities you choose, attempt to keep her on the border between pain and excitement, where the two sensations seem to overlap and meld. That’s the sweet spot you’re aiming for.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Idea: No Way to Win

Recipe for No Way to Win:

A Dominant often demands obedience from their submissive partner. “Do it,” says the Dominant, and the submissive is expected and anxious to comply. Non-compliance is not desirable–sometimes, in fact, it is understood that failure to comply may bring punishment.

But imagine if the Dominant’s demand was difficult to the point of unreasonableness. How would that feel? And further, imagine that the Dominant expected to be obeyed anyway, and that the submissive had a strong expectation of punishment for failure. Can you put yourself in the poor submissive’s shoes and empathize with their growing panic as they begin to realize that they cannot comply, but that impossibility is not an excuse?

This is the premise behind today’s adventure. Be careful, however! The tone of this scenario must be light in heart—you almost need to employ a sense of humor when enacting it. Your submissive partner should recognize that you are playing with them, and that you fully understand that you’ve placed them in a no-win situation. If you insist on a deadly serious approach, you will likely get anger, frustration and tears as a result rather than the sexual submission you are looking for.

There are many other ways to implement this concept than the one I describe below. I chose this particular approach for Joy and I due to the large number of dildos we have in our collection and the way it dovetails with our long-standing requirement that Joy use her mouth to “clean” my penis after intercourse. If you don’t have a sufficient number of dildos available to follow along with the idea below, you can certainly come up with your own unreasonable task. Just remember that making it a bit demeaning as well as difficult will help ramp up the feeling of submission for your partner.

As usual, this adventure is written from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. However, roles and genders can be mixed and matched as desired without impact.

You Will Need:

  • 1 set of wrist cuffs
  • 1 collar with o-ring
  • 1 snap hook
  • 1 pair of nipple clamps (optional)
  • an assortment of dildos or vibrators, preferably realistic in appearance
  • 1 spanking implement, and it is best if it’s the one that your partner finds most intimidating (for us, this is our riding crop, which Joy swears has invisible teeth in the striking end)
  • a wristwatch with a second hand or some other way to measure time

Instructions:

You want your partner to feel vulnerable for this adventure, and the way they dress should support that feeling. One option would be to ensure they wear nothing at all—nakedness certainly can induce a feeling of vulnerability. Another option would be to break out the cupless or peek-a-boo bra and permit them to wear nothing else, and finally, a babydoll nightgown with nothing underneath would work as well. I chose to be fully clothed for this adventure to emphasize the difference between Joy’s role and my own, but you may dress as you like.

I said it above, but let me repeat. Keep the tone of this scenario light! Your partner should discover relatively quickly that you have set them an unreasonable task, and grasp soon after that you are fully aware that it is not reasonable. They should see the inevitability of their “punishment” and realize that even though they are bound to fail, you expect them to try their best anyway and then submit to the spanking that they “earn” through their failure. If you start to see frustration set in, take steps to lighten the tone with what you say or how you act to help them understand the spirit of the adventure.

  1. Lay out the selection of dildos and vibrators in the room where you stage the adventure. They can just be lying on a table or on a bed, but be sure not to stand them up on end or it may actually become possible for your partner to complete the task you are about to set them. If you want to raise the submissiveness of the adventure a tad, you could even lay them out on the floor. Joy and I have easily a dozen different vibrators and dildos, and that’s plenty. You could probably get away with as few as six if that’s all you have. Ensure that your spanking implement of choice is also somewhere handy so that you can pick it up easily when it becomes necessary.
  2. Bring your partner in and instruct her to don her cuffs and collar. Caress her, hold her and kiss her to raise her excitement level as she puts them on. Ensure that the o-ring of the collar is positioned at the back of her neck.
  3. Raise your partner’s hands up behind her neck and use the snap hook to connect both wrists to the o-ring of the collar. This will place your partner in an overarm tie, and greatly restrict her ability to use her hands and arms. In addition, it will nicely expose her breasts and underarms—take the opportunity to enjoy them thoroughly.
  4. When you are ready, tell your partner that you have something she needs to do for you. Explain to her that the dildos you have laid out need a good cleaning, and you expect her to take care of it.
  5. Your partner will likely be puzzled and not know what to do. Add a bit of pressure by telling her that you have other plans after she’s done, and she should hurry and get started.
  6. When your partner points out that she can’t clean them because her hands are bound, respond by telling her that her mouth is free, isn’t it? She knows how to clean a cock with her mouth, doesn’t she? Repeat again that she needs to get started—you want her to hurry and finish.
  7. Hopefully your partner will now begin to attempt the task you have set her, but chances are good that some level of resistance will begin to build inside her. Joy gave me “the look” when I gave her that instruction, and I took the opportunity to wink at her. Remember my suggestion about keeping the tone light?
  8. Because her hands are bound behind her head, your partner will be unable to use them to assist her in the task you have set her. She will instead have to bend over and use her lips and mouth to reposition the dildos so that she can “clean” them. This will be both difficult and rather demeaning. If she tries to get away with simply licking them, hold her waist and give her several serious smacks on the bottom with your hand. Warn her that you expect her to do a good job! And tell her again to be quick about it because you have plans for her body and you don’t like to wait! Don’t accept anything less than a full-on and fairly thorough blow job of the dildo before she can call it “clean”. Feel free to impose other requirements, such as licking the base of the shaft and the balls (if the dildo comes equipped with balls).
  9. When she succeeds in completing one dildo, tell her that it took far too long, and that she must be much quicker about the rest. Set a time limit of one minute for the next one, and use the watch to time your partner’s efforts. Tell her that if she doesn’t succeed within that time limit, you’ll be forced to punish her. But…remember to keep the mood light. Be playful rather than severe and stern when you talk about punishment.
  10. If your partner somehow succeeds with the one minute time limit, either up the ante by adding to the requirements to clean the next dildo, or reduce the allotted time. Your goal is to ensure that she fail.
  11. When your partner fails with her efforts, bend her over your knee and give her bottom a sound paddling with your hand. Then tell her she has “X” minutes to finish cleaning all the other dildos (where you pick “X” to be long enough to give her time for a good try, but not long enough to succeed). Tell her that you are out of patience, and if she fails again, you will show her what a real spanking feels like. Pick up the spanking implement you have chosen so that she can see that you intend to use it, and warn her that you will be watching to make sure she does a thorough job. Then begin timing. Feel free to tap your foot impatiently if you like.
  12. Ideally your partner will do her level best to complete her task, knowing all the while that she is doomed to fail. It’s possible, however, that she will give up. If she does, incentivize her using the nipple clamps (“These will not come off until you are through!”) or by stopping the clock and using the spanking implement to administer some interim motivation, then requiring her to start the cleaning process over.
  13. When time runs out and the task has not been finished, pretend to be sad about what you are about to do. “This is going to hurt me more than it’s going to hurt you,” might be a good line to use. Then apply the spanking implement firmly to her behind until you feel you have spanked her long enough.
  14. When you are done, you may either instruct her to “clean” you with her mouth, or you may spread her legs and ride her until you reach your climax. Do not worry about her pleasure—this is not an adventure that focuses on her physical enjoyment. Rather, maximize her sense of submission and her feeling of being your toy to play with, and you will feed her mental enjoyment instead.
  15. Afterwards during cuddle time (and she will have earned some solid cuddling!), feel free to discuss what you did. If she wants to know why you set her an impossible task and punished her when she failed, tell her it’s because you wanted to remind her that she is a submissive, and that thinking about a task or worrying whether or not she can accomplish it is not listed in the submissive job description. Instead, her job is to submit, and you may choose to reward or punish her for her actions however you choose. Tell her she did well, even if she didn’t actually clean all the dildos, and that you are proud of her submission.

Commentary:

As mentioned above, there are many ways to set impossible tasks. Feel free to improvise. This adventure requires a fairly deft touch, and may be difficult for beginners! If you’re worried about how your partner will react to it and want to lighten things up a bit, consider replacing each instance of “punishment” with tickling instead. With your partner’s arms bound behind her neck, she won’t be able to defend her ticklish spots, and therefore will be at your mercy.

If you don’t have a collar, you could also forego the overarm tie and simply cuff your partner’s hands behind her back. This won’t be as artistic, but it should be just as effective.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Recipe: Hogtied and Helpless

Recipe for Hogtied and Helpless:

The hogtie is a bondage position that emphasizes helplessness. With her hands and feet gathered together and bound behind her back, this position ensures that your submissive partner can do little more than wiggle under your touch. In today’s adventure, we will further emphasize her state of helplessness with a blindfold (and optionally a gag as well) and then capitalize on it by seriously overloading her sexual circuitry.

One of the drawbacks of the hogtie position is that it makes any form of intercourse difficult. Never fear, however, as we will work around that problem by finishing up in your partner’s mouth. As usual, please note that though I’m writing from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner, genders and roles could be changed without too much difficulty to fit your situation.

You Will Need:

Instructions:

For this adventure, you’ll need your partner’s nipples and genitals exposed, so she should be dressed in clothing/lingerie that facilitates this. This could be anything from an open cup bra and crotch-less panties to nothing at all—the choice is yours. You may dress yourself however you see fit—since your partner will be blindfolded, your attire is not much of a factor.

Lay out your equipment so that it is ready for use. No need to worry about keeping it out of sight—it won’t impact anything if your partner guesses what you plan for them. The only possible exception to this might be the gag if you plan to use it, and that’s only because it’s always so much fun to make your partner open her lips and take the gag when she’s not expecting it.

If you do choose to use the gag, remember to be careful of your partner’s breathing, and arrange for some sort of “safe signal” to replace your normal safe word, as she won’t necessarily be able to speak intelligibly.

  1. Begin by bringing your partner to a nice, steamy simmer with kisses and caresses. Keep raising her temperature as you attach the cuffs to her wrists and ankles.
  2. Continue to kiss her and caress her as you place the blindfold over her eyes. And then give her one final kiss before you insert the gag between her pretty lips and fasten its straps in place behind her head.
  3. Gently, but firmly, place her face down on the bed (or the couch, or the floor, or wherever you want her to lie). Bring her wrists together at the small of her back and fasten them with the hogtie (or alternatively with a rope or a snap hook, depending on which you choose to use). Then grasp her feet and pull them up and back until you can connect her ankles to her wrists using the hog tie (or the rope or a snap hook) as well. At this point she should be helpless–blindfolded, gagged and bound in the hogtie position.
  4. Now, roll your partner over until she is lying about three-quarters on her back. (Avoid making her roll over too far or she will have her weight on top of her hands and ankles, which will quickly become intolerably uncomfortable for her.) This will nicely expose her breasts and vagina, and note that because her hands and feet are bound behind her, there is very little she can do to prevent you from doing whatever you’d like to these delicious parts of her body.
  5. Use your hands and mouth to raise your partner’s temperature to a full boil. When she is gasping and squirming and fully lubricated, pick up the vibrator. This is no time for subtlety and gradual build up—turn the setting to high and apply it directly where she likes it the most.
  6. Remember I mentioned we would overload your partner’s sexual circuitry? While the vibrator is working its magic on her genitals, use your mouth and free hand to play with her nipples. Kiss them, lick them, suck them and nip them. Pinch them between your fingers and roll them back and forth. In the presence of great arousal, nipples often seem to convert pain to pleasure, and this is the effect we are going for here. Watch your partner and read her reactions to make sure you don’t go too far in this direction—you want to be sure you are giving her the “good” kind of pain. If you exceed her tolerance for this, however, you’ll cross over to the “bad” kind of pain, and that will detract from the experience rather than adding to it.
  7. If all continues to go well with the nipple play and you want to go a step further, try this. Use your finger to “flick” her erect nipple. Start out gently, and watch how she responds. If her reaction seems to be more positive (as in, “Ow, that turns me on!” rather than “Ow, that hurts!”), you can increase how hard you flick it. Joy only likes this when she’s truly excited–if she’s not extremely aroused, it hurts. But when she is in the proper state of arousal, it drives her crazy.
  8. Your goal is to give your partner multiple orgasms. In fact, ideally you’ll keep her squirming and bubbling for orgasm after orgasm after orgasm. Go until you think she can’t possibly take anymore. Since she is so helpless, she won’t be able to stop you, and so will have no choice but to keep on coming. The only exception is, of course, if she uses her safe word (or safe action if you are using a gag).
  9. When you decide to stop, don’t give her time to compose herself. Instead, remove the gag (if you’re using it), then grasp her hair and position her head so that you can enter her mouth. Thrust in and out between her lips until you reach your own climax. The choice is yours whether you come in her mouth or across her face–either will work just fine.

Commentary:

If you’d like to emphasize the feeling of Dominance (and conversely, your partner’s feeling of submission) in this adventure, consider choosing to give your partner a facial rather than coming in her mouth. Once you’ve done so, leave her bound for a few minutes so that she’s unable to clean herself up and must lie there with your sperm on her face (but stay close by–it’s not safe for your partner to be alone when she is gagged and bound). When you decide it’s been long enough, take a cloth and gently wipe her face for her before you free her.

Other bondage positions besides the hogtie will work for this adventure as well, of course, and if you decide that intercourse is a must, you could certainly unbind your partner’s legs to make it more easily possible. Another gag alternative might be a ring gag, which would enable you to penetrate your partner’s mouth without having to stop to remove it.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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