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Friday Adventure Recipe – Showing Strength

Recipe for Showing Strength

Today’s adventure recipe is a simple one, requiring little equipment. However, it has the considerable advantage of showing off your physical strength to your partner very directly, by pitting it against their own. Of course, we stack the deck by virtue of the position they are in to help ensure your strength exceeds theirs, even if you’re not necessarily stronger in real life. For the submissive partner, there’s something magical about being Dominated by someone who is physically stronger, and this adventure is designed to leverage that magic.

In addition, it provides maximal skin-to-skin contact. Unlike more complex adventures, with ropes and cuffs and floggers, you and your partner will remain close, skin-to-skin, for the duration. For that reason, in a way, this is a more intimate adventure than many others.

As usual, I write from the point of view of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner, but you could easily adjust this exercise to fit other relationship configurations if required. A female Domme with a male submissive, for instance, is quite feasible–just use your imagination.

You Will Need:

  • One vibrator
  • An old necktie
  • A comfortable chair with a back…a recliner, for instance, will do nicely

Instructions:

Both you and your partner should start this adventure naked. Remember, I said we’d maximize skin-on-skin? If you prefer to have your partner strip off her clothes in front of you, that’s fine, but you want her bare before you begin in earnest. No need to conceal the equipment–there is so little of it, and it seems so innocuous, that keeping it out of sight serves no purpose.

  1. To begin, tie one end of the tie around your partner’s right wrist, and the other end of the tie around their left wrist. Make no attempt to tie the wrists close together–you’re going to want the slack.
  2. Place the vibrator near at hand where you can reach it from a sitting position, and then sit down in the chair with your legs spread apart. Have your partner sit down in front of you between your spread legs, so that her back is against your chest. When this step is complete, you should both be sitting facing the same direction, close up against each other, like you were riding in the same log on the Flume ride at an amusement park.
  3. Pull your partner’s hands up and back over her head, and pull the tie back over both your heads. Lean forward so that the slack of the tie comes down behind your back, then lean back to trap it in place. Lift your hands over the tie, so that it is secure behind your back and under your arms. When you are done, your partner’s hands should be bound behind her head where they can’t get in the way of the fun you’re both about to have.
  4. Lift your legs up over your partner’s and hook your ankles behind hers. Then use the strength of your legs to spread hers apart…and keep them apart.
  5. Now, use your hands and the vibrator to tease, caress and stimulate your partner however you see fit. Both her breasts and her genitals are fully available. With her hands bound out of the way and your legs locking hers apart, she cannot prevent you from doing whatever you want to drive her wild. My recommendation would be to begin slowly and build up the pleasure over time…perhaps starting with breasts and nipples, moving to her genitals when she’s already warmed up, and placing the vibrator where it will do the most good as she becomes fully overheated. Bear in mind that her ears and the sides of her neck are also available for your lips and tongue if those are erogenous zones for her.
  6. Keep going until she can’t stand it and starts to resist. With Joy, this happens before she actually reaches orgasm…I generally have to fight Joy to make her come (I’ve never really understood why…she likes to come…but that’s the ways she seems to work). It may not be the same with your partner, but you’ll know when the resistance starts because she’ll try to close her legs to get away from the vibrator (which by this point is firmly placed against her swollen clitoris). Use the power of your own legs to keep your partner’s legs spread wide. If you’re having trouble, try pushing your legs down as well as apart–the friction of your feet against the chair will help you maintain control. If necessary, brace your legs against the outside edg1es of the chair to keep them separated. Keep going with the vibrator and other stimulation until you have clearly demonstrated that you are stronger that your partner and you decide that it is time to stop. Hopefully this will be well beyond the point of orgasm(s) for your partner!
  7. After you have stopped, wrap your partner in your arms and hold her close. Kiss her neck and caress her…let her know what a good girl she has been.

Commentary:

A fun and easy add-on to this scenario is to perform it in front of the TV or a computer with “interesting” programming running where you and your partner can see it while you play. I sometimes do this with Joy when planting a seed for a future, new activity…one she’s never tried before…and choose the programming to reflect the seed I’m trying to plant. The adventure puts her in the right frame of mind to be open to new things…if you know what I mean.

One word of caution–be aware of your partner’s head! It will be placed quite close to your own, and if she tosses it around in the throes of passion, a painful impact could occur! I try to lean forward and position my head beside and slightly in front of Joy’s when we get close to the end of this adventure.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Recipe (Christmas Edition) – Spanking and Coming

Recipe for Spanking and Coming

Okay, push has come to shove. Tonight’s the night when people really find out whether they are on the naughty list or the nice list! Will Santa be kind or deliver nothing but lumps of coal?

Of course, in reality, everyone belongs on both lists. We are all nice sometimes, and at other times…well, let’s just say that everyone has their moments. This recipe will enable you to illustrate that point to your submissive partner, as it mixes punishment and reward together.

The punishment, appropriately enough, will be spanking. The reward will be a ferocious orgasm. We will leverage the body’s strange capability to turn pain into sexual excitement to ensure that the intensity of the experience is greater than the sum of its two parts. To add to the excitement, we will also introduce a strong element of helplessness. Ho ho ho!

As usual, I write from the point of view of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner, but you could easily adjust this exercise to fit other relationship configurations if required.

You Will Need:

  • One spanking implement of your choice (could be your hand if you prefer)
  • One large pillow, suitable for placing under the hips of your submissive partner
  • One set of wrist cuffs
  • One set of ankle cuffs
  • One collar
  • One gag (optional)
  • A bed (hopefully you have one of these!)
  • Three adjustable ties
  • Four snap hooks
  • Three connection points, one centered on the headboard of your bed, and one placed at each of the bottom corners of the bed.
  • Your absolute best-est vibrator suitable for clitoral stimulation (the more effective, the better–I suggest a Magic Wand style, but other types can also work)

Instructions:

Place the spanking implement and the vibrator out of sight, but no harm in leaving the other equipment in plain view. For this adventure, I suggest that you start with your partner fully clothed–part of the fun is that you are going to surprise them. You, too, can wear your street clothes, but the addition of a Santa hat placed at a jaunty angle on your head is a nice touch that can help your partner get in the proper holiday spirit.

Note that we will be using the collar as a connection point rather than just for ornamental purposes in this scene. Care must be taken to ensure that at no point your partner is at risk of choking, and do not leave them alone once you have attached their collar.

  1. Find your partner, wherever she may be in the house. Politely, but insistently, interrupt whatever she is doing, and guide her to the bed where you have made your preparations.
  2. Once there, place the cuffs on her hands and use a snap hook to connect them behind her back. Don’t answer any questions, and ignore any protestations (unless, of course, the safe word is employed). If using, insert the gag into your partner’s pretty mouth and buckle it in place to cut off any further dialog–we don’t need any conversation from this point forward. Buckle the collar around her delicate neck.
  3. Unfasten your partner’s pants and remove them (if she’s wearing a skirt, you can leave it on if desired). Remove your partner’s panties so that she is naked from the waist down.
  4. Place the pillow horizontally across the middle of the bed, then firmly escort your partner forward onto the bed, so that she lays face down, with her head about a foot from the headboard and her hips over the pillow. You should end up with a lovely view of her upturned bottom, raised up slightly by the pillow underneath it.
  5. Use the first adjustable tie to connect the ring on your partner’s collar to the connection point on the headboard. Remove slack, but do not pull tight–you want to be sure there is no restriction to your partner’s breathing. The goal here is to keep your partner’s head down and oriented toward the headboard, nothing more.
  6. Place the ankle cuffs around your partner’s ankles and buckle them tightly. Use the remaining adjustable ties to connect each ankle to the corresponding connection point at the bottom corners of the bed. Remove excess slack in the ties–pull them relatively tight. You should end up with your partner’s legs fastened so that they are spread apart and she cannot close them.
  7. At this point, your partner should be bound face down over the pillow, with her hands fastened behind her back and her naked bottom raised and ready. Explain to your partner that while you are no elf, you are assisting Santa this year, specifically when it comes to evaluating your partner’s conduct. You have found her to have been both naughty and nice at various times over the course of the year, and therefore you will be administering both punishment and pleasure.
  8. Take a moment to admire your partner’s behind. Caress it, kiss it, run your fingers up between her legs. The goal here is to create “interest” before you begin in earnest. Check to see if she is wet, and use your hand and fingers to build her excitement as desired.
  9. Now, locate your spanking implement, and begin the “punishment”. Feel free to deliver a Christmas lecture if you desire–something about giving, consideration of others, thinking positive…whatever you feel is appropriate. Spank to the taste of you and your partner, but remember that we want at least some pain here. As your partner’s level of arousal increases, the pain and pleasure will tend to mix and become one, but the pain component must be present for this to occur.
  10. Now, take a brief pause in the spanking, and introduce the vibrator. Place it exactly where your partner likes it most and let it work it’s magic. Under no circumstance should you allow her to come, but you can get her heading firmly in the right direction.
  11. Give the vibrator a rest and return to the spanking for a moment or two. Then return to the vibrator. For the next several minutes, take turns first spanking, then pleasuring your partner with the vibrator. Be careful, though–we still want to be sure there are no orgasms!
  12. When you are ready, begin simultaneously spanking and pleasuring your partner. Use one hand to employ the spanking implement, and the other to hold the vibrator in the right position. You will likely find that your partner can now handle more pain than usual, so it may be best to increase the ferocity of the spanking a bit.
  13. When your partner begins to come (note that I do not say “if”), don’t stop. Keep spanking and keep the vibrator on her clitoris, no matter how she bucks and heaves and whimpers. Keep going until you are convinced she can absolutely handle no more.
  14. Stop the spanking and remove the vibrator. Unfasten your pants, unlimber your penis and immediately take your pleasure in your partner. You may go into either her front or back door–the choice is yours. Enjoy her thoroughly!
  15. When you are done, unbind your partner and pull her close. Hold her tight and tell her what a wonderful Christmas present she is, and how grateful you are to have her. Likely she will be completely spent and require some time to gather herself–this would be an excellent time for a nice holiday nap together.

Commentary:

Clearly this does not need to be a holiday adventure–you could easily remove the Christmas elements and enjoy it any time during the year. You could also forgo the collar entirely by connecting your partner’s hands to the headboard instead of behind her back–that would certainly work, but I have to say that I, personally, would miss the magic sight of Joy’s hands twisting futilely in their cuffs as she comes and comes. Also, the addition of an anal plug can add an extra “zing” to the scene if desired.

Enjoy yourself, and merry Christmas!

Jake

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Friday Adventure Recipe (Saturday Edition) – Airtight

Recipe for Airtight

After my post on inflatables a couple weeks ago, I got a request for more information about how Joy and I use inflatable toys in our adventures. What better way to honor this request than to post an adventure recipe? I haven’t done one of these for awhile and may be a bit rusty on the format, but hopefully it will prove educational nonetheless.

For those who may not be aware, the word “airtight” has a specific meaning in the world of kinky sex. It means that all three, primary female orifices are filled at the same time. There is nothing subtle about this adventure. It is designed to first create a sense of helplessness in your partner, and then quickly and rather emphatically overload her pleasure circuits, to the point that she is utterly drained by the time it ends. For that reason, and because it requires the use of an anal plug that becomes more severe as it inflates, it is not suitable for beginners or those who have not experienced anal play.

“Airtight” has more complex equipment requirements than most of my previous recipe suggestions, but that’s because it’s specifically focused on the use of several inflatable toys. Be aware that inflatable gags become one of the small subset of gags that cannot be easily spit out when they are pumped up–therefore, they can present a safety hazard and care should be taken when using them. As always, I have written from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. However, you could easily modify this particular scene to fit a male sub, with the obvious difference being that males have only two orifices to fill.

You Will Need:

  • One inflatable gag
  • One inflatable dildo (vibration optional)
  • One inflatable anal plug (vibration optional), or you could use a second inflatable dildo if you prefer
  • One blindfold (optional)
  • One set of wrist cuffs
  • One set of ankle cuffs
  • Connection points to enable you to bind your partner spreadeagled on a bed or other comfortable surface
  • Four snap hooks
  • One vibrator suitable for clitoral stimulation (the more effective, the better–I suggest a Magic Wand style, but other types can also work)
  • Condoms (optional, but always recommended for use with inflatable dildos and plugs)

Instructions:

Cover the plug and dildo with a condom each before you start. You may find it best to put the condom over the entire dildo/plug rather than stopping at the base of the shaft. That way it won’t slip off. You may wear whatever you are comfortable in for this adventure. Your partner, however, should be nude before you begin. Though not strictly required, probably it’s best to keep your equipment under cover until you have placed the blindfold on your partner.

  1. Spend some time preheating your partner until she is nice and warm and relaxed. Place the cuffs on her wrists and ankles and buckle them snugly as you do so. Turn your partner over onto her belly and focus on her bottom. Remember, you will need your partner to be able to accommodate the uninflated anal plug, which even in it’s deflated state can be a little challenging without preparation. Rub and caress her behind to help her relax.
  2. Place the blindfold over your partner’s eyes.
  3. Lubricate your partner’s anus. Insert one of your fingers and move it gently in and out of her bottom. When she has become accustomed to a single finger, add a second, so that you are thrusting two fingers into her behind.
  4. When your two fingers are gliding easily in and out, take the anal plug, thoroughly lubricate it, and gently insert it into your partner’s bottom. Once it’s seated firmly in place, give it a single pump to ensure that it will remain in place.
  5. Insert the inflatable gag into your partner’s mouth. Buckle it tightly around her head.
  6. Turn your partner onto her back and place her in the center of the bed. Extend her arms and legs and attach each wrist and ankle cuff to a connector at the corner of the bed. Leave a little slack in the leg connections so that your partner’s knees can come up, but not nearly enough to allow her to close her legs. When you are done, your blindfolded and gagged partner should be bound spreadeagled on the bed, with her bottom plugged.
  7. Use your fingers and tongue to ensure that your partner’s vagina is well-lubricated. If necessary, apply additional lubricant. Then, insert the inflatable dildo and give it a couple pumps to help it stay in place. If it has a tendency to work its way out, you may need to hold it in with your hand.
  8. Now you have completed your preparation and the fun can begin in earnest. Tell your partner that you are going to make her body completely full, so full that she is airtight. Give each of the inflatables a single pump, and count it off, “One”. Apply the vibrator gently, softly, on low speed to her clitoris. Be careful that you do not bring her to orgasm this early in the adventure. After perhaps thirty seconds of clitoral stimulation, ask her if she feels full. Regardless of whether she indicates yes or no, tell her that she is “not full enough, not nearly full enough”. Judiciously keep the vibrator going a little longer, but again, do not let your partner come.
  9. Remove the vibrator, and then give the inflatables a second pump, each in turn. Count it off–“Two”. At this point there should be no problem–the inflatables are still fairly small–but watch your partner carefully just in case. If you observe any distress, deflate the offending toy immediately. Apply the vibrator again, and while doing so, tell her “Getting fuller…but you still have a long way to go before you’re as full as you can get”. Make sure she is well-and-truly excited before you stop this time, but once again, do not let her reach a climax.
  10. Keep going in this fashion–count off a pump for each of the inflatables, then apply the vibrator–until your partner approaches the capacity of her bodily orifices and she is truly frantic with desire and the need to come. Be smart and err on the side of caution–don’t go too many pumps, especially the first time you perform this adventure! Joy, who is experienced, maxes out at about six or seven pumps, but I’d suggest stopping at three the first time. “Now you’re nice and full, aren’t you? Now you’re airtight!”
  11. When you reach what you decide should be the final round, continue on with the vibrator. Tease your partner for a little while with it, and then begin to apply it more aggressively until you push her over the edge and into orgasm. If you’ve played out this adventure right, it ought to be a doozy. (Note: If your partner is multi-orgasmic, you could consider bringing her to orgasm in an earlier round, then continuing with the pump and vibe rotation until she comes again.)
  12. When she finishes her climax, deflate the dildo and the plug using the quick release valves, but leave the gag in place. Detach your partner’s legs from the connection points (leave her arms attached) and remove the plug and dildo. She should be extremely pliant and submissive after her experience with being “airtight”. Immediately roll her into a ball and take your pleasure in her. I suggest using her ass–it will very easily accommodate you at this point. If she can handle it, apply the vibrator again while you are inside her. See if you can make her come again while you thrust into her.
  13. Afterwards, deflate and remove the gag and release your partner’s arms. Hold her close and caress her. Let her know what a good girl she has been and how much she has pleased you.

Commentary:

You can choose other bondage positions besides spreadeagle for this adventure–just be sure that they make your partner helpless to resist. Good options might include a hogtie or a ball tie. Adding nipple clamps might also be an option and provide a tiny bit more stimulation. Whatever you decide to do, however, the key to this adventure is to give your partner just a little bit more than they believe they can handle (but not more than they can actually handle) so that their adrenaline kicks in and they truly cannot help but come.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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Friday Adventure Idea: Naked Dinner

Recipe for Naked Dinner

This is an extremely simple, but surprisingly effective, adventure meant to emphasize the hierarchy within a Dominant/submissive relationship. I believe I originally got the idea from a movie, but I have no idea which one it might have been. While it is perfectly okay to give your partner warning of what you’re planning in advance, I have preferred to spring things like this on Joy suddenly, with no notice. It’s quite a wonderful thing to watch her face as she realizes that I am serious and makes up her mind to submit to my requirement.

As always, I have written this from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. However, this particular scene is completely gender neutral, and therefore you can mix and match roles and genders as required for your own situation with no modifications necessary.

You Will Need:

  • Nothing, except several hours of alone time (although if you had the right guests over, it might be even more effective to conduct ‘Naked Dinner’ during a dinner party)
  • Instructions:

    You should be fully dressed for this adventure, and ideally in something that emphasizes your Dominant role. A coat and tie might be one option, or you could go with jeans if that’s more your style. It makes absolutely no difference what your partner wears—she won’t have it on long, anyway.

    1. Select a night when you and your partner are going to eat dinner together at home. It does not matter who does the cooking—proceed with the preparations however you wish. I suggest making sure the table is set formally—candles and nice china would be good—so as to increase the feeling of contrast you are about to create. However, when the table is set and dinner has been cooked, but before it is served, stop. Grasp your partner’s hands and turn her to face you. Instruct her to take off her clothes.
    2. You’ll like get some sort of variation on “…but dinner’s ready!” in response. You should reply with “Do you think I don’t know that? I would like to have a nice view when I eat my meal. Now hurry and take off your clothes.”
    3. Perhaps your partner will have no trouble with this—I don’t know. However, for Joy it is difficult. She feels embarrassed at the idea of being nude while I am dressed. If you get some sort of comment about how it isn’t fair for one person to keep their clothes on, feel free to point out that Dominant/submissive relationships are quite unfair on purpose. “Dominants dominate, and submissives submit. I suggest you remember that while you unbutton your blouse.”
    4. Once your partner has removed every stitch of clothing (no, she cannot keep her underwear, no matter how nicely she asks), sit down at your seat and tell her that you would like her to serve you. Let her know she should be careful she doesn’t burn any tender, exposed parts on hot pots or pans! Isn’t it lovely to watch her breasts jiggle as she carries dishes of food in from the kitchen? And don’t you just want to bend her right over the table and take her right there, among the plates and glasses?
    5. Enjoy your meal together. While it’s certainly possible to let your conversation turn down “interesting” paths, I recommend you stick to completely neutral topics—how work went, or what your plans are for tomorrow. However, make sure you keep the tinge of humiliation and vulnerability your partner feels alive. Every once in awhile, instruct her to stand up and turn around (so that you can see her ass) or raise her hands over her head (to lift her breasts and expose her elegant underarms).
    6. When the meal is over, have her remain naked while she clears the table. Linger in your chair, enjoying the view. What a lucky man you are to have such a beauty serving you!
    7. When the table has been cleared, you can finish this adventure in any number of ways. My own choice was to pull Joy over my knee for a good spanking, and then lay her down across the dining room table to be fucked. Variations on this idea are many. However, you could also easily choose to continue the theme you started with and spend the rest of the evening together, you fully dressed while your partner remains bare, if that’s what you prefer.

    Commentary:

    An interesting modification to this idea might be to have your partner wear a dress, but remove her panties and tuck the back of the skirt up, so that her bottom is exposed. That way you get a nice view every time she turns around (and it’s particularly tantalizing if you are into spanking like we are). And if your partner is shy and has a particularly difficult time with being naked for dinner, you could also tone things down a bit by letting her wear lingerie.

    Depending on your partner’s level of inhibition, this adventure can be rather mild or rather difficult—you’ll need to be the judge of that. Note, however, that it requires your partner to feel at least a hint of humiliation and embarrassment for it to succeed. If she is completely comfortable in her nudity, you’ll have to ramp things up a bit. Consider adding a set of nipple clamps, or an anal plug. Or, alternatively, cuff her hands behind her back so that she can only eat when you feed her. Any of these options might help increase the feeling of vulnerability and submission you are looking for.

    Enjoy yourself,

    Jake

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Friday Adventure Idea: Learning to Swallow

Recipe for Learning to Swallow

Back when Joy and I were vanilla, Joy had an issue with oral sex. Oh, it wasn’t the sucking part—she was fine with that. But she didn’t like for me to ejaculate in her mouth, and if I did so, she really didn’t like to swallow. As we began down the path of BDSM, it became clear that she wanted to learn to swallow (okay, what she actually wanted was to be MADE to swallow), but she didn’t like the taste and sensation of semen in her mouth. Eventually, with practice, Joy overcame this distaste, and I’d say at this point that being made to swallow holds some of the same attraction as a spanking—it’s not particularly enjoyable in the moment, but the feeling of submission it engenders is wonderful. Today’s adventure comes from one of the practice sessions we held to help her reach this point.

Because it involves the use of a gag, it is wise to have a “safe gesture” in place for this scenario. The adventure was written from a male Dominant/female submissive perspective, but could be modified somewhat to work with a male-male couple if desired. I’m afraid that for obvious reasons it won’t work as well for female Dominants.

You Will Need:

  • One set of comfortable cuffs
  • One snap hook
  • A ring gag of sufficient girth to allow you to insert your penis through it

Instructions:

I’d suggest your partner wear a babydoll nightgown for this scene—it’s decorative, and yet leaves her lower half fully available for use. You may choose to go a different direction if desired, as long as nothing she wears obstructs penetration. I’d suggest starting with a pair of boxer briefs for your own costume—that way you’ll be quickly ready for action.

Lay out your equipment before you start so that it is immediately handy. No need to place it out of sight—your partner won’t be able to deduce much from seeing it, and in this case, it doesn’t much matter if she figures out what you’re up to in advance.

  1. Preheat your partner nicely with kisses and caresses. Why? Because it’s always better to start with a warm oven!
  2. Buckle the cuffs around each of your partner’s wrists. Continue preheating as you do so.
  3. Lay your partner on her back, then draw her knees up to her chest. Bring her arms up around her legs and fasten her wrist cuffs together behind her knees with the snap hook. When you are done, she should be in a loose ball-tie position (see picture above).
  4. The ball tie nicely exposes your partner’s genital area. Take advantage of this for a moment or two by exploring her lower half with your tongue.
  5. When you are through with your exploration, insert the ring gag into her mouth, then gently lift her head and fasten the straps nice and tight around the back. The gag should be held securely in her mouth when you are through.
  6. Now, with your partner in position, it’s time to focus on increasing her submissive mindset for a few moments. Give her a slow, but thorough, spanking. The ball-tie position not only makes her bottom available but allows you to utilize her legs for leverage if she starts to wiggle. Do not stop until your are certain that the spanking has clearly conveyed the message that you may do as you please with her.
  7. When you are done, use her legs to turn her to face you and mount her. Take your time and enjoy her vagina. If desired, you may enjoy her ass instead. Continue moving inside her until you are very close to your orgasm. Do not come yet, however!
  8. When you are on the very edge of orgasm, pull out and move to her head, using her legs to help position her appropriately. Grasp her hair to hold her head immobile, then insert your penis through the ring gag into her mouth. Now go ahead and come. If you need to use your hand to masturbate a bit to get you over the last fence to your climax, that’s fine. Just be sure that your penis is through the gag and in the depths of her mouth before you let go.
  9. Instruct your partner to swallow the come in her mouth. Hold her head in position, using her hair as a handle to prevent her from turning to the side to let the semen dribble out. Be careful that she does not choke, but be firm that you require her to swallow.
  10. Afterwards, remove the gag and free her wrists and let her know that you are proud of her. Hold her close until you are both calm and peaceful.

Commentary:

Because this adventure is meant to leverage a strong sense of submission, there are no steps other than the pre-heating focused on giving pleasure to your partner. Instead, the instructions focus on setting up a situation where you use your partner for your own pleasure and she is helpless to do anything but submit. If you prefer, you could certainly introduce a vibrator or other toy and devote some time to helping her to an orgasm of her own, but it will definitely change the feeling of the adventure.

Certainly other bondage positions would work for this scene, but I like the ball-tie because of the advantages it provides. It is quick to set up and requires very little equipment, and it offers a deceptively strong amount of control. In a good ball-tie, the bound party has very little ability to move, and the legs provide an excellent source of leverage to twist and turn your partner about to meet your needs. In addition, the fact that it places your partner on her back looking up ensures that gravity will help the inexorable slide of your semen down her throat, while the gag prevents her from being able to spit it out.

Enjoy yourself,

Jake

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