Recipe for Naked Dinner

This is an extremely simple, but surprisingly effective, adventure meant to emphasize the hierarchy within a Dominant/submissive relationship. I believe I originally got the idea from a movie, but I have no idea which one it might have been. While it is perfectly okay to give your partner warning of what you’re planning in advance, I have preferred to spring things like this on Joy suddenly, with no notice. It’s quite a wonderful thing to watch her face as she realizes that I am serious and makes up her mind to submit to my requirement.

As always, I have written this from the perspective of a male Dominant with a female submissive partner. However, this particular scene is completely gender neutral, and therefore you can mix and match roles and genders as required for your own situation with no modifications necessary.

You Will Need:

  • Nothing, except several hours of alone time (although if you had the right guests over, it might be even more effective to conduct ‘Naked Dinner’ during a dinner party)
  • Instructions:

    You should be fully dressed for this adventure, and ideally in something that emphasizes your Dominant role. A coat and tie might be one option, or you could go with jeans if that’s more your style. It makes absolutely no difference what your partner wears—she won’t have it on long, anyway.

    1. Select a night when you and your partner are going to eat dinner together at home. It does not matter who does the cooking—proceed with the preparations however you wish. I suggest making sure the table is set formally—candles and nice china would be good—so as to increase the feeling of contrast you are about to create. However, when the table is set and dinner has been cooked, but before it is served, stop. Grasp your partner’s hands and turn her to face you. Instruct her to take off her clothes.
    2. You’ll like get some sort of variation on “…but dinner’s ready!” in response. You should reply with “Do you think I don’t know that? I would like to have a nice view when I eat my meal. Now hurry and take off your clothes.”
    3. Perhaps your partner will have no trouble with this—I don’t know. However, for Joy it is difficult. She feels embarrassed at the idea of being nude while I am dressed. If you get some sort of comment about how it isn’t fair for one person to keep their clothes on, feel free to point out that Dominant/submissive relationships are quite unfair on purpose. “Dominants dominate, and submissives submit. I suggest you remember that while you unbutton your blouse.”
    4. Once your partner has removed every stitch of clothing (no, she cannot keep her underwear, no matter how nicely she asks), sit down at your seat and tell her that you would like her to serve you. Let her know she should be careful she doesn’t burn any tender, exposed parts on hot pots or pans! Isn’t it lovely to watch her breasts jiggle as she carries dishes of food in from the kitchen? And don’t you just want to bend her right over the table and take her right there, among the plates and glasses?
    5. Enjoy your meal together. While it’s certainly possible to let your conversation turn down “interesting” paths, I recommend you stick to completely neutral topics—how work went, or what your plans are for tomorrow. However, make sure you keep the tinge of humiliation and vulnerability your partner feels alive. Every once in awhile, instruct her to stand up and turn around (so that you can see her ass) or raise her hands over her head (to lift her breasts and expose her elegant underarms).
    6. When the meal is over, have her remain naked while she clears the table. Linger in your chair, enjoying the view. What a lucky man you are to have such a beauty serving you!
    7. When the table has been cleared, you can finish this adventure in any number of ways. My own choice was to pull Joy over my knee for a good spanking, and then lay her down across the dining room table to be fucked. Variations on this idea are many. However, you could also easily choose to continue the theme you started with and spend the rest of the evening together, you fully dressed while your partner remains bare, if that’s what you prefer.


    An interesting modification to this idea might be to have your partner wear a dress, but remove her panties and tuck the back of the skirt up, so that her bottom is exposed. That way you get a nice view every time she turns around (and it’s particularly tantalizing if you are into spanking like we are). And if your partner is shy and has a particularly difficult time with being naked for dinner, you could also tone things down a bit by letting her wear lingerie.

    Depending on your partner’s level of inhibition, this adventure can be rather mild or rather difficult—you’ll need to be the judge of that. Note, however, that it requires your partner to feel at least a hint of humiliation and embarrassment for it to succeed. If she is completely comfortable in her nudity, you’ll have to ramp things up a bit. Consider adding a set of nipple clamps, or an anal plug. Or, alternatively, cuff her hands behind her back so that she can only eat when you feed her. Any of these options might help increase the feeling of vulnerability and submission you are looking for.

    Enjoy yourself,


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