Bondage Positions for Receiving Blow Jobs

Before I begin, I want to remind readers that I am a bondage pragmatist. In other words, I prefer function over form and simplicity to complexity when it comes to bondage. I am absolutely certain that someone, somewhere has created the perfect bondage position in which their partner hangs suspended upside down from the rafters in a web of lovingly crafted knots, placing their mouth at the perfect height to administer an oral favor. However, that someone is not me, and I’m not going to focus on complicated systems of restraints like that.

Instead, I’m going to focus on quick and easy positions that deliver against what I consider to be the two primary criteria when combining bondage with receiving a blow job. Those criteria are:

  • Control and it’s antithesis, helplessness: This is, after all, the reason for bondage in the first place. A good bondage position maximizes the Dominant’s control and emphasizes the helplessness and vulnerability of the submissive.
  • Oral Accessibility: The quality of a blow job depends on the recipient’s ability to make effective use of their partner’s mouth. Positions which block access or deny adequate movement reduce the pleasure of the experience.

With that in mind, I submit that there are really just two optimal positions for a bound blow job. Other positions in which oral sex is possible certainly exist—the hog tie, for instance—but while they should not be overlooked, they do not provide the same quality of experience as the two best options. These two options deliver quality in spades!

  • Option 1: Kneeling, Hands Bound Behind

    To implement this position, bind your partner’s hands out of the way behind them and then place them on their knees while you stand before them. Their ability to lean forward and back, use their knees to adjust their height and angle of attack, and freedom to move their head as desired provide excellent oral accessibility and makes this a wonderful blow job experience. More than that, the act of kneeling in front of you while you stand creates a delicious feeling of submission for them, while the fact that their hands are restrained and out of the way allows you to grasp and guide their head as you desire (aren’t ponytails wonderful?) and finish the experience as you see fit.

    Hands may be bound in a variety of ways. The simplest option is to simply cuff them behind your partner’s back, but you may also cuff each individual wrist to the corresponding ankle, or if you have a bondage belt, cuff them to the connection points at each side. Or, to heighten the feeling of submission to its maximum, cuff your partner’s hands together, pull them up over and behind their head, and attach the cuffs to the connection ring at the end of an already-inserted Rope Master (and if you don’t have one of these, now would be the time to get one!).

  • Option 2: Lying Face Up, Head Hanging Off the Edge of the Bed

    To place your partner in this position, arrange them so that they lay face up on the bed with their head extending just over one edge. Stretch out their hands and legs and secure them to the bedframe using cuffs, ropes or other connections. When properly positioned, your partner’s head will tilt down and back, giving you full access to their mouth and a wonderful angle for deep throat penetration.

    The previous position allowed your partner to move to provide you with pleasure. In this position, however, they have little flexibility for movement. Instead, their mouth is positioned to allow you to thrust into it, essentially giving you free rein to use their mouth. Again, this position creates an excellent sense of Domination and submission, and as a bonus, it enables you to play with your partner’s outstretched body while you take your pleasure if you desire. If you truly want to maximize the feeling of helplessness for them, consider introducing a ring gag, which prevents them from being able to close their mouth while still allowing you to penetrate.

    Care must be taken to ensure that you are not overly rough when using this position. Your partner cannot prevent you from thrusting as deeply as you want, and therefore opportunities for going excessively deep and triggering a gag reflex abound. Be gentle, especially if you have not tried this before! As with the first position, you have control over how and where you choose to finish, with many lovely options provided by the scenic vista spread before you.

  • One thing to note is that this post assumes that the Dominant partner is the one receiving the blow job. If your relationship dynamic is such that the Dominant partner will be giving the blow job instead—a perfectly valid configuration–a whole different menu of options opens. But those options will need to be covered in another post…

    Enjoy yourself,

    Jake

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